Chances of my gf being pregnant

I ejaculated an hour before and then we had intercourse for less than 30 seconds without a condom and she isn't on any contraception. I then put a condom on and carried on.

Is it likely she is pregnant?

If you didn't go in her, then she's PROBABLY not preggo. I'd say there's maybe a .01% chance you get her pregnant.

Of course there's always a CHANCE, even if you used a rubber, she's on the pill, she's had a hysterectomy, and you've had a vasectomy. Albeit minute.


We actually had a pretty big scare about 2 months ago... but it turned out negative. Get your chick on the pill. It works.


Also, I'm sure lish would like for me to tell you to get ortho, and NOT to get aviane. As it tends to give you false positives. Thus.. the scare.

Aviane, or whatever it's called, is fucked.

My gynecologist told me, after I explained to him what happened to me while on that pill, that he sees at least ten women a day who think they are pregnant for sure because they have all of the symptoms, and it's nothing more than the Aviane.

Go with Ortho. I've not had any side-effects as of yet.

But yeah, birth-control pills work extremely well. Don't listen to anyone who says otherwise. The only way I can see them not working is if the girl forgets one or more or is on a medication that counteracts it, which is possible. I've researched.

There is one side effect. Ya know.. that week where you had no sex drive. Bad times.

CDCeltown wrote:There is one side effect. Ya know.. that week where you had no sex drive. Bad times.

Damn that sucks........

My gf can't take birthcontrol. She says the doctors told her she has a blood clotting factor or something.

Well then, stick to rubbers. They work pretty well too.

There are numerous types of birth control out there as well. I mean ortho and aviane aren't the only options. There's the patch, yaz, etc... have her look them up.

I hate to say it but it's her responsibility being as there is not yet any kind of birth control like that for guys. It's not a sexist thing... it's a facts thing.

She should discuss the possibility of a birth-control pill, patch, or shot that women with the blood-clotting factor can still take with her doctor. I'm sure there are BC pills out there specifically for women with that problem.

It's worth a visit to the doctor.

Onalish wrote:She should discuss the possibility of a birth-control pill, patch, or shot that women with the blood-clotting factor can still take with her doctor. I'm sure there are BC pills out there specifically for women with that problem.

It's worth a visit to the doctor.

*nod*

I''m almost sure there are shots for girls with that problem.

I talked to my gf about seeing her doctors again but I don't think she feels comfortable and also is scared. I don't blame her but I think she's being reckless. Condoms are not effective all the time.

The only thing I can do is to continue talking to her and hope that she will try to look for something.

I know that I'm not ready to be a parent and I know that we are not doing enough but.......I'm not going to stop having sex. Maybe I can look into other sorts of bc that are not pills that I can use. I think there is a lubricant but it's expensive but it would be worth it.

Has anyone of you ever tried the lubricant if you know what I'm talking about?

I think you're referring to spermicide. It's on some condoms. I don't know if they make lube with it or not.

Maybe though.

Failure rates for birth control methods when used correctly

(Number of pregnancies per 100 women per year)
Male condom alone 11
Female condom alone 21
Diaphragm with spermicide 17
Cervical cap with spermicide 17 to 23
Sponge with spermicide 14 to 28
Spermicide alone 20 to 50
Oral contraceptives 1 to 2
Contraceptive patch* 1 to 2
Vaginal contraceptive ring 1 to 2
Hormone shots less than 1
Hormone shots less than 1
IUD less than 1
Periodic abstinence 20
Surgical sterilization (female) less than 1
Surgical sterilization (male) less than 1
Contraceptive patch is less effective in women weighing more than 198 pounds.

Sorry to say if she has blood clots they don't recommend any pills, patches, shots, or rings. Any BC that says they don't recommend smoking is out. That is why because taking that contraceptive increases the chances of clotting and if you smoke then it increases them more. Based off of the numbers above the male condom looks like your best option.

a new beggining wrote:Failure rates for birth control methods when used correctly

(Number of pregnancies per 100 women per year)
Male condom alone 11
Female condom alone 21
Diaphragm with spermicide 17
Cervical cap with spermicide 17 to 23
Sponge with spermicide 14 to 28
Spermicide alone 20 to 50
Oral contraceptives 1 to 2
Contraceptive patch* 1 to 2
Vaginal contraceptive ring 1 to 2
Hormone shots less than 1
Hormone shots less than 1
IUD less than 1
Periodic abstinence 20
Surgical sterilization (female) less than 1
Surgical sterilization (male) less than 1
Contraceptive patch is less effective in women weighing more than 198 pounds.

Statistics are bullshit.

CDCeltown wrote:

Statistics are bullshit.

If statistics are BS then you would also agree that a woman can still get pregnant on a pill even if she doesn't miss one?

The fact is it is still a gamble no matter what form of BC you use.